FAQ
Why do I need to Plan a Service for my loved ones?
What makes a service meaningful?
What kind of service should I have?
Does MARJIM Memorial offer a Cremation Service?
No
Should I involve children at the funeral?
Most of the rituals in our society focus on children. Unfortunately, the funeral ritual, whose purpose is to help mourners begin to heal, is often not seen as a ritual for kids. Too often, children are not included in funerals because adults want to protect them. Funerals are painful, but children have the same rights and privileges to participate in them as adults do.
Here are ways to appropriately include children:
Help explain the funeral to them – Tell children what will happen before, during and after the ceremony. Give as many specifics as they seem interested in hearing. If the body is viewed either at a visitation or at the funeral itself, let the child know this in advance. Explain what the casket and body will look like.
Find age-appropriate ways for children to take part in the funeral – grieving children feel included when they can share a favorite memory or read a special poem as part of the funeral. Shyer children can participate by lighting a candle or placing something special in the casket (a memento, a drawing, a letter or a photo).
Understand that children often need to accept their grief in doses, and that outward signs of grief may come and go. It is not unusual, for example, for children to want to roughhouse with their cousins during the visitation or play video games right after the funeral. Respect the child’s need to be a child during this extraordinarily difficult time.
Here are ways to appropriately include children
Help explain the funeral to them – Tell children what will happen before, during and after the ceremony. Give as many specifics as they seem interested in hearing. If the body is viewed either at a visitation or at the funeral itself, let the child know this in advance. Explain what the casket and body will look like.
Why have a funeral?
What does a Family Service Director do?
Funerals fill an important role for those mourning the loss of a loved one. By providing surviving family and friends with an atmosphere of care and support in which to share thoughts and feelings about death, funerals are the first step in the healing process. It is the traditional way to recognize the finality of death. Funerals are recognized rituals for the living to show their respect for the dead and to help survivors begin the grieving process. Planning a personalized ceremony or service will help begin the healing process. Overcoming the pain is never easy, but a meaningful funeral or tribute will help.
- Pick up the deceased and transport the body to the funeral home (anytime day or night)
- Notify proper authorities, family, and/or relatives
- Arrange and prepare death certificates
- Provide certified copies of death certificates for insurance and benefit processing
- Work with the insurance agent, Social Security or Veterans Administration to ensure that necessary paperwork is filed for receipt of benefits
- Prepare and submit obituary to the newspapers of your choice
- Bathe and embalm the deceased body, if necessary
- Prepare the body for viewing including dressing
- Assist the family with funeral arrangements and purchase of casket
- Schedule the opening and closing of the Crypt/Mausoleum with Memorial personnel
- Coordinate with clergy if a funeral or memorial service is to be held
- Arrange a police escort and transportation to the funeral and/or Memorial for the family, if required
- Order funeral sprays and other flower arrangements as the family wishes
What do Family Grief Counselors do?
What do I do when a death occurs?
- Call the Funeral Director or Help Line...
- Please keep the following documents handy;
- Birth Certificate
- Medical Death Certificate & Address Proof
- Contact your Parish or Church to arrange for a Mass service, which can also be done in the Chapel, at the Memorial site.
- The funeral home will assist you in determining the number of copies of the death certificates you will be needing and can order them for you.
- Make a list of immediate family, close friends and employer or business colleagues. Notify each by phone.
- Decide on appropriate memorial to which gifts may be made (church, hospice, library, charity, or school).
- Gather obituary information you want to include such as age, place of birth, cause of death, occupation, college degrees, memberships held, military service, outstanding work, list of survivors in immediate family. Include time and place of services. The funeral director will normally write article and submit to newspapers (newspaper will accept picture and they will be returned intact).
- Arrange for members of family or close friends to take turns answering door or phone, keeping careful record of calls.
When I call, will someone come right away?
Flexibility in Payment
- Yes, we provide flexible payment options, EMIs etc. Details will be sent to you (based on your requirement), after you register and receive an acknowledgement with an official Registration Number.
Will I receive a signed agreement?
Are the burial sites exclusively for Christians?
Yes it is only for the Christian Community
